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Online course

He Rescues Himself

An evidence-based course for men

He Rescues Himself covers most of life as a man in plain terms: your body, your head, your relationships, your kids, the stuff you use not to feel things, work, money and mates.

Every lesson tells you how long it takes. Nothing is compulsory, you can skip whole modules, and every activity has a minimum version for days when the full one is too much.

A$149

One-time payment of A$149.

You will go to Payhip to buy. Payhip handles payment and delivery.

Topics: For men

Who it suits

This could be for you if

  • Something is not right and you cannot name it
  • Your partner says you do not talk, and you thought you did
  • You have separated and nobody warned you what it would be like
  • You are drinking more than you would say out loud
  • You cannot remember the last real conversation with a mate
  • Or you are mostly fine and would like things to be easier

Written for men who are single, married, separated, divorced or widowed. Fathers, stepfathers and blokes without kids. Tradies, FIFO, shift and office workers, business owners and men out of work.

What's inside

What you get

  • Start Here: what this is, and how to use it without it becoming another job
  • Module 1: The Rules You Were Handed
  • Module 2: When Your Body Starts Keeping Score (sleep, shift work, the Australian health checklist by age, getting more from a GP visit)
  • Module 3: What You're Feeling When You Haven't Got the Words
  • Module 4: The People Closest to You, including an accurate account of perimenopause and late ADHD diagnosis in women
  • Module 5: Kids, exes and the family you've got now, including what Australian family law says now
  • Module 6: Control, Safety and What Happens Behind Closed Doors
  • Module 7: The Stuff We Use to 'Not Feel' the Stuff (alcohol, drugs, gambling, porn, gaming, work)
  • Module 8: Work, Money and the Weight of Being Useful
  • Module 9: Mates, and Where They Went
  • Module 10: The Man You Choose From Here, including a seven-day reset
  • Module 11: Where To Next
  • 18 downloadable tools
Format
Self-paced online course, 11 sections
Lessons
8 minutes or less each
Price
A$149, one-time
Access
Lifetime, 24/7
Sold by
Payhip
Price checked
20 October 2026

Buying and access

How it reaches you

Buy on Payhip and the course opens in your Payhip account. There are no classes or appointments to attend.

More on buying, access and refunds.

Good to know

Not therapy, counselling or a crisis service, and not personal advice about your relationship, health, legal position or money. It points you to specialists where that is the right call.

You do not need to buy anything to get help.
  • Emergency: 000
  • MensLine Australia, 24 hours: 1300 78 99 78
  • 1800RESPECT, national, 24 hours: 1800 737 732
  • National Debt Helpline, weekdays: 1800 007 007

Calls to 1800RESPECT can appear on an itemised phone bill unless your provider hides them.